Dating a married man for 3 years
( Because assuming that his wife knows nothing about his flings, he would be enjoying happy sex life and social life with her and there are probabilities that you are not the only one with whom he's into an extra marital affair.)Third you should ask yourself- If by any chance, he agrees to divorce his wife and marries you, are you sure he won't cheat on you(his now wife) as he cheated his previous wife? Think whether you will happily divorce him if he approaches you with another 3 year old extra marital affair)Fourth you should ask that man- Why does he need to cheat on his wife at all?Is she not fulfilling for him sexually or emotionally?with a man who has filed for divorce and minimize getting devastated.As most articles I write, I do not know if what is being reported is true about Fantasia Barrino, however I am going to talk about it as if it is were true to discuss an important issues. I would probably have not gone into this if I didn’t know he would be leaving his wife.He told her that he is not happy and things have to change by August. They went to see a marriage councilor, who was pretty helpful for them, but of course my man still wants out. I just want her to understand that people change over years, and that their marriage is over.
He stayed at my apartment once or twice the entire relationship but never the weekend.( You really need to get in touch with his wife and have a long chat as her friend, so you know if he's into habit of sleeping around, gambling, beating her up, socially irresponsible etc) Fifth you should ask that man- Does he have nerves to make you two( you and his wife) meet face to face and discuss things openly with each other?(He may very well try an emotional blackmail on you when you raise any such demands saying you don't trust him and all. Just don't.) If even one of the answers to these question is "NO", then you should immediately end this unstable relationship. You will definitely find someone who would not be cheating on his wife or girlfriend.After the move we still were back and forth but he still did not want to commit.
I told him after about a year and half of this not to call me or see me and we didn’t for about 2 months.
I was finishing college and getting ready to move to New York permanently for work.